Ten Year Anniversary of Hospitalization

Daffodils

Ten years ago, two weeks preceding and including Valentine’s Day, I was hospitalized. Twenty years ago, I experienced a psychotic break during the same season: this season – the season of Lent. Though I do not attend church, this season moves me deeply. I could write more about seasonal affective disorder and how those of us with bipolar disorder predictably cycle during different seasons. But, for today, Valentine’s Day and week three of NAMI Provider Education, I will quote past posts and enjoy the evening with my husband. Thank God I am not in the hospital this Valentine’s Day. Thank God I can enjoy the occasion at home with my husband and son.

In my post I do not whisper. I ROAR., I said this about the hospitalization ten years ago:

Trying to balance work with motherhood, I failed miserably, and ended up hospitalized in a psychiatric unit with rapid cycling and mixed symptoms of bipolar disorder. After months of partial hospitalization, I became a reluctant stay-at-home mother on disability. What does an overeducated and reluctant stay-at-home mother with a recurring sense of religious calling (or a manic and delusional symptom of bipolar disorder, depending on one’s perspective) do with her mind? Why attend seminary, of course, which I did on two separate occasions and on two separate occasions had to quit.

Last March I wrote the following post about the Lenten season.

Lent | The Rites of Spring

For many, spring is a time of celebration and remembrance.

– Deseret News, March 7, 2009

Two days ago was Ash Wednesday, the first day of Lent. Although I did not have my forehead smudged with ash, I do acknowledge my human mortality, I mourn and begin a period of atonement.

For dust you are and to dust you shall return
Genesis 3:19

My practice of atonement is more cathartic than penitent. Instead of fasting, I feel my soul shaken, and I wonder, “What, God, do you want of me?”

The Lenten season has always been spiritually meaningful for me, moving me in powerful and unseen ways. Often I find myself psychiatrically unstable, somehow shaken, and find upon reflection that once again it is Lent, once again I begin a new cycle. This time of renewal, of death and rebirth, is for me a period of turmoil. Change is near. Springtime is upon us. Time to awake.

Here is a link to an article by Nicole Warburton in Deseret News, March 7, 2009 on the Rites of Spring: The rites of spring: Rebirth is a major religious theme | Deseret News.

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44 thoughts on “Ten Year Anniversary of Hospitalization

  1. e February 15, 2015 / 12:42 pm

    So much I want to say Kitt…I hear you loud and clear and am so glad I can…. because you’ve chosen to speak.

    Honored our paths have crossed,

    e

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    • Kitt O'Malley February 15, 2015 / 6:47 am

      Mark,
      Did you intend on commenting? I see that you blog about your life with Aspergers and Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME) at mark-kent.webs.com.
      Thank you for visiting.

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  2. supermommyoftwins February 15, 2015 / 4:56 am

    Three years ago on Valentine’s day, I woke up in the hospital, barely alive. I too, am so grateful, and feel so blessed, to be here with my beautiful family today.

    After reading I feel a bit less alone. There ARE people out there, like you, who understand. Thanks for sharing!

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    • Kitt O'Malley February 15, 2015 / 5:53 am

      Thank you. Glad to have you here with us. You are not alone. Both you and your family are blessed.

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  3. Sheila North February 15, 2015 / 2:15 am

    Interesting post. I once did a chart – when, most likely, more than a bit hypomanic – showing that my periods of illness were tied to the seasonal festivals I follow. Fortunately, I lost the chart – I’m sure I would have obsessed over it!

    Interesting post. Curious how the “dust to dust” idea can turn on its head, for me at least, if you change the dust to “stardust”.

    I used to lose my faith when I became depressed. Just one more reason to hate those times, for me.

    I hope you have a lovely lent, and experience a positive “rebirth”.

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  4. Mariah Warren February 14, 2015 / 9:20 pm

    Glad Dyane shared this… I appreciate your reflections on Lent and its meaning for you, emotionally. Kind of like Advent for me, the time of my longest hospitalization. And like you, I’m an overeducated mom on disability who has felt a pull towards ministry…no seminary yet, though. I’m a bit too disorganized at the moment- can’t even find time for all these great blog posts!

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  5. Just Plain Ol' Vic February 14, 2015 / 8:34 pm

    Kitt:

    Your story is a true testament that a person can be bi-polar, have negative experiences yet still emerge a stronger and wiser person. Thanks for sharing!

    Vic

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    • Kitt O'Malley February 14, 2015 / 8:58 pm

      Thank you, Vic! I hope that you having a nice Valentine’s Day. My husband is playing catch with our younger dog inside the family room. I got roses and chocolate. Yum!

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  6. Tammy February 14, 2015 / 7:59 pm

    Thank you for sharing your story! I had my breakdown around Valentines Day too in 1998. Diagnosed with major depression and bipolar! It’s an uphill climb with valleys but like you, I too, am extremely glad I’m not in the hospital! Hugs.

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    • Kitt O'Malley February 14, 2015 / 8:56 pm

      I’m glad you are not in the hospital, too! Happy Valentine’s Day, Tammy!

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  7. Trish February 14, 2015 / 7:41 pm

    you are an inspiration to those with Bipolar disease just by telling your story!! You rock!!

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  8. kbailey374 February 14, 2015 / 7:08 pm

    Congrats on making it thru this year 🙂 and being able to enjoy this season!

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  9. Laura P. Schulman, MD, MA February 14, 2015 / 6:51 pm

    Dear Kitt, although I am Jewish and do not celebrate the Lenten season, we do have our special holidays and festivals to bring in the Spring season. The very first Commandment after Sinai was to observe Rosh Hodesh, the beginning of each month. This month, which we are now celebrating, is the month of Adar. Each month has is own special mission. The mission of Adar is to bring in joy. Loosely translated, the saying is “whoever brings Adar into himself, increases the joy in the world.” The sad part about this is that I always get depressed in the Spring, starting about now. It seems unfair! I’m glad you are not in the hospital, and I’m glad you can find meaning in Lent. There is so much more I want to say about your amazing post here, but I’m just so tired….I guess I’ll just have to say that I admire you greatly….And I used to read the Deseret News also, when I lived there.

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      • Kitt O'Malley February 14, 2015 / 8:47 pm

        Nope. My hospitalization was due to mixed symptoms. Crying hysterically. Overwhelmed at work. Overstimulated. Mixed states. Ultra-rapid cycling. It was over ten years ago. The seasonal affective disorder honestly depends on the weather. As the days get longer I start to become more hypomanic than depressed.

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        • kbailey374 February 14, 2015 / 9:03 pm

          Oh Kitt, sorry I wasn’t clear, that remark was meant for Laura up above. She says she always gets depressed in the Spring.

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          • Kitt O'Malley February 14, 2015 / 11:13 pm

            Oops! Sorry. I butted in. Laura, I piggyback on KBailey’s hopes for wellness (less to no depression).

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    • Kitt O'Malley February 14, 2015 / 8:44 pm

      I found the article last year when looking for links about the topic. I will have to write a more universal post about the different rites of spring and seasonal affective disorder and such. Sorry to hear you get depressed. More of a hypomanic, mixed symptom time for me.

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      • Laura P. Schulman, MD, MA February 15, 2015 / 7:02 am

        I started thinking, which symptoms would I rather have? Hmmm, none of them. If I had to choose from the library of symptoms that have been visiting me, I guess I would choose a mild hypomania, the kind that gets me out of my recliner and instead of simply being more depressed about the chaos in my living quarters, actually gets me doing something about it. Only, now I have my pesky arthritic skeleton getting in the way of movement. Mixed symptoms are definitely the worst. Total disorientation…after my second hospitalization with that, I realized that nothing they did in the hospital was actually helpful….so now when it hits, I make sure I have plenty of hot tea available, and just go to bed with large amounts of benzos, for however long it takes to blow over, usually one to two weeks….I used to use antipsychotics, which were the most helpful of all, but then I developed extrapyramidal symptoms…..too complicated to explain here, I will have to write a post on that. Anyway, I can’t take my Seroquel anymore, which makes things much more complicated and unpleasant.

        Wishing us all a healthy and symptom-free Spring! –Laura

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        • Kitt O'Malley February 15, 2015 / 1:18 pm

          Terrible when must stop antipsychotics due to extrapyramidal symptoms (EPS).

          For my readers (not for you), I list them here:

          Extrapyramidal symptoms (EPS) are drug-induced movement disorders: dystonia (continuous spasms and muscle contractions), akathisia (motor restlessness), parkinsonism (characteristic symptoms such as rigidity, bradykinesia, and tremor), and tardive dyskinesia (irregular, jerky movements). (source: Wikipedia)

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