Kitt O'Malley - Kitt O’Malley

Tears Quietly Roll

May 11, 2018

Now that I’ve taken care of the business of death, I no longer need to numb myself from the pain of loss. Now I cry. Softly. Quietly. The tears roll down my cheeks. I miss my dad. I really miss him.

Jazz and Grief

May 4, 2018

in Grief, Mental Health

Listening to jazz as I grieve my father’s death.

Now Grief Feels Like Nothing

Apr 29, 2018

in Acceptance, Family, Grief, Health, Mental Health

Unlike grief theories that propose defined stages, grief is not linear, nor is it universal. We grieve differently. Now I feel nothing. I’m numb. My psychologist describes it as “taking care of business,” reframing what I’m going through, my coping mechanism, in a positive way. Quoting MedlinePlus, NIH, U.S. National Library of Medicine at https://medlineplus.gov/ency/article/001530.htm…

Grieving — My Father Passed

Apr 24, 2018

in Cancer, Family

My father passed away. His illness and death took us by surprise. We had no idea that he had lung cancer, nor that his infection was severe, until last week. Thank you for your love, support, and prayers.

Hospice — Prayers for Peace and Comfort

Apr 22, 2018

in Cancer, Dementia, Family, Health

When I was a little girl, at bedtime I sent my prayers to the dead. One at a time, I sent them my love, hugs, and kisses. Eventually, I tired, sent a big hug to everyone else, and fell asleep. Some people count sheep. I prayed to and for everyone who had ever lived. Now,…

Prayers for My Father, Please

Apr 18, 2018

in Family, Health, Mental Health

My father was hospitalized last night for complications from a skin infection. Your prayers and best wishes are welcomed and greatly appreciated. Thank you.